Emotions are easy to hide. People smile when they are sad. They laugh when they want to cry. They say the are fine when they aren’t. People will make everything seem OK. Everything isn’t always OK. Marriages fail. Kids die. Jobs are lost. Feelings are hurt. People will still act like all is well. It’s a matter of will. Always claim you are doing fine. It’s like a mantra. YOU ARE FINE, YOU ARE FINE. Everything isn’t always fine. But people will ALWAYS act like it is. They can’t fathom saying things aren’t. They are scared of what others think. … Continue reading Everything isn’t always OK.

Happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there. Well let me rephrase that,  happy father’s day to all the active fathers out there. The fathers that take care of their kids and not just call when it’s convenient. I never had a father in my life so I’ll say happy father’s day to my mother. Many women today are the mother and the father. A father is someone who is there for their family. They take the time to be with their kids everyday. They are faithful to their wives or girlfriends and don’t run out on them. Any … Continue reading Father’s Day

Why can’t everyone have the opportunity to go to college? Why is it that hundreds of people have to take out loans along with financial aid to pay for their education. Is it so wrong to let everyone be able to further their education. After the government fucks up the economy they then have the nerve to say they want to increase the student loan rate interest. They say people should go to college only if they can afford it. That’s not right. I am a college student who has to take out loans along with financial aid so that … Continue reading America the what ??

Is it bad that females really don’t know how to love a man. Or is it just that men want to act like boys when it comes to commitment. Are women now only looked at for their body and not for what is in their heart. I just heard Bad on the radio & thought about it. The song suggest that women can have good sex but can’t love. Maybe that is true for some women. Maybe everyone is looking for relationships they don’t need. I don’t know how everyone else thinks this is just my opinion. Continue reading Is it bad that….

Why do people judge others? Is it because they see wrong in themselves and want to point out other people’s issues before they deal with their own or is it something deeper. Don’t people know that they have to work on themselves before they point fingers at anyone else. Have we been so focused on other people’s lives that we have forgotten about ourselves. Maybe people should be more selfish in the sense that they truly only care about their own life and not everyone else even those they don’t know. Continue reading Just thoughts